A short story I read yesterday from Sudha Murthy‘s book on her experiences as she traveled all over
Her other stories were simple and thought provoking…..about everyday topics and some inspiring…while other was about things we know…but have forgotten…..anyway
This one particularly touched me
It was about a “holleru”-strange kannada word…I didn’t know what to expect as I started reading
So holleru means a stone that can bear your weight……..
She tells us about her grandfather who lives in the village…whose job was to serve water to travelers en route to the neighbouring town…..
He sat all day at the “holleru” (stone)…waited for travelers –as they quenched their thirst and they moved on.
BUT
The most important thing was that when the traveler arrived…he was weary of carrying his load all the distance
So this was a resting place where he relieved himself…albeit for a little while, and talked to her grandfather about all his travails.
Her grandfather just listened…the traveler talked…rested….and then when ready he carried his burden and forged for the remainder of his journey with renewed energy-mentally and physically
This break was essential in the person to reach his destination…..
Which brings us to the human need to have a ear…..which listens and doesn’t judge…….
We don’t need solutions to our problems…but just someone who will share with us…even if momentarily………who will hear it
And smile at the end to encourage you
And say that it will get better
Since time immemorial joint families have provided support like this……today with the family structure crumbling and work pressures building …….this kind of support system has become a rarity
Hence the need arises for a support system built with friends…not with people you are related but with people one chooses to be related to.
Talking is the key here
To be able to talk to a person with full confidence that they will not betray you….and not judge you…but support you emotionally……
And ensure that you look forward to tomo rejuvenated!
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